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HELP!!! My friend is "falling for a taken guy and they have something undefined" and I was trying to impose my tough love on her.
Until now, I still don't know why some people like the idea of getting into something that has always been known as complicated. Feel free to read our chat script and if you have your own views, please feel free to comment.
Friend: i think i'm falling for a taken guy
Me: OH MY GOSH!!!!
Friend: and we have something undefined... huhu
Me:you are? uhmmm.... by now....
Friend: undefined, mieL
Me: if you think u have the right to ask what you and this guy is going through... then i think it would be better to ask him... gosh.... undefined is same as its comlicated right?
Friend: yeah... same ra jud, mieL... ahays... i asked him man
Me:and then?
Friend: i asked man gud if i'm his the other... he didn't answer... ana xa nga di daw ko dapat magthink ana... basta daw i'm his taba (taba nako)... ky i call him tikig nako man... ... tsk :(:( ahays, mieL
Me: LOL... miel...
Friend: nakoncenxa au ko sa iyang gf
Me: are u enjoying it? maka-konsensya man jud na miel... :):)
Friend: yeah... kaayo... i spent my June 2 with him... before i left for iloilo
Me: but then... does he even have plans of breaking up with the legal gf?
Friend: i dunno, mieL... hmmmm... he does not talk about her... everytime mag-ask ko ky e-change topic niya
Me: see....
Friend: like example.. manganchaw ko niya about his gf muana ko nga "uuuyyyy"... muana na xa nga "uuuy ka diha"... huhu...tapos ana xa na kita mi sembreak... ahays
Me:they dont wanna talk about their legal wives.... coz they are so guilty... and its like brushing it up on them... that they are completely doing something bad
Friend: lagi jud, mieL!!!! huhuhu... makalagot.... huhuhu... pero, mieL... di ko gusto maging reason why magbulag sila if ever... huhuhu
Me: you are taking part into something that is not right...hahaha! the righteous me... :):) dont mind me miel... im just trying to think objectively...
Friend: hehehe
Me:u just put yourself into the legal gf's shoes... and u just examine how ud feel about it...
Friend:lagi, mieL, wui... lagi, mieL, wui... huhu...
Me: but u have to keep your heart guarded...please....
Friend: huhu..mieL..
Me: yes?
Friend: kabalo man ko how it feels sa side sa iyang legal wife... mao gani koncenxa au ko... as in kaaaaaaaaayo
Me: see.... so as much as possible....
Friend:ky i've been there...tsk...ma and pa pa jud ilang tawagan...huhu...ouch...i was there when his legal wife called..tsk...na-hurt ko...
Me: stop communicating with this guy... LOL... easier said than done... right?
Friend:after the call ky he hugged me...yeah.. it;s hard, mieL...kanina nag-grocery ko.. all i can think of is him...
Me:wah!!!!
Friend:huhu...
Me:thats not love honey... :):) hahaha! miel...this wont work.. coz it started with the wrong foot... dapat... if u flirt with him... he has no gf na... he doesnt even show signs that he's going to break up with the girl... so what kind of assurance will u get from him?
Friend: gani...not a sign, mieL...ahays... i dunno, mieL :(:( hmmmmm...basta i like him...he was the first to flirt with me...wa ra man to nako...
Me:im deemed to be older... i should know better... HAHAHA! RIGHTEOUS... for the nth time... =)=) HAHAHA!
Friend: then a friend told me na feeling niya this guy likes me... hmmmm...
Me:and u liked the feeling of being wanted...right?
Friend: yeah
Me: maybe ur just loving the attention miel?
Friend:ahays... know what, mieL
Me:what is it? :):)
Friend: nagtxt iyang cousin sa iya.. kabsa ko sa txt.. nag-ask iyang cousin if when daw sila magpakasal sa iya legal wife...nagreply xa na wala daw na sa plano
Me:okey....
Friend:then hours after.. gihatod nako niya sa pier.. then i forgot ngano niabot ana nga point.. but i asked him if when sila pakasal... ana xa nga wa jud daw na sa iyang plano...then ana ko niya na "i hope i'll be there. if i get invited
Me:then whats his point of being in that relationship?
Friend: then he squeezed my hand...ky nag-hold hands man mi ato...huhu
Me: u are subjecting yourself to such pain....gosh!!!!
Friend: ahays
Me: im gonna do tough love on you miel ha...get over it....
Friend: he knows man guro, mieL, na ma-hurt ko everytime talk mi about it
Me: he's not the guy for you...if u want him....
Friend: lagi, mieL.... he's not jud... but he's just so amazing...and that he just fits the guy that i want.... hmmmmmmmmm....:(:(
Me: but if u really want this guy... stop asking about him and the girl...
Friend: last wednesday, mieL..naa ko ship...on my way here sa iloilo...grabeh nakong hilak... ky i miss him much na....as in hilak na todo jud.. ga-tulo2x akong luha.. but i had to be quiet ky daghan pasahero
Me: tsk miel... stop hurting yourself OK? u deserve to be happy....
Friend: thanks, mieL
Me: and there are lots of fishes in the sea....
Friend: i know i deserve to be happy jud
Me: i wish ud listen.... but just do what u think is bearable...
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Friend: but i'm happy when i'm with him jud.... ahays, mieL... daghan na nag-ingon nako to stop this... pati si **********...he knos man...knows
Me: see...
Friend: :(:(
Me: so id wish ud stop...
Friend: mieL
Me: :):)
Friend: huhu
Me: coz its not doing u any good... at all...
Friend: ambot ngano niabot ko ani na situation
Me: ok?
Friend: tskyeah.. i know, mieL... it's super not :(:( huhu
Me: please.
Friend: thanks for being honest, mieL...ahays... pero sometimes.. we tend to be crazy.. and fall for the wrong one
Me: i will tell you things that will hurt u... but in the end... it will always be you who will make the decision... i think iv said my part....
Friend: yeah.. thanks au, mieL... it hurts jud coz it's from you... coz i know true friends like you will tell me the truth... ahays... the sad truth
Me: yes....
Friend: cge lang.. i'll be busy na starting this monday... basin maka-get over ra ko
Me: yes.... miel... being busy beats the heart....anyway.... i have to go.... :):) miel...u take care... and have fun OK? =)=) dont think too much of that guy... and if ever? HAPPY THOUGHTS!!!
Friend: i love you, mieL... always and forvver... forever... i hope to see yah soonest!!!!! thanks gid
Me: yes yes...:):)
Friend: i'll try jud to forget him
Me: dont worry....
Friend: super thanks for the time... as in!!
Me: am here for you....bye...
When we give our advise, we need to be realistic... We have to consider that there are so many things that are easier said than done. These people asking for an advise before asking other, they already have their own decision and whatever you tell them will matter less.
In the end, what makes them happy will always lead the way and it will remain their decision to follow their hearts desire or not... ♥
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